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If you struggle in this area then you are in the battle of your life. I know I've been there. My advice to those who struggle is to allow the addiction to drive you to a deeper walk with God. For me, that was half the battle right there, but still I would fail on occasion. You need to have software that filters and produces accountability reports to another user. Covenant Eyes does this and is what I use. Also, I am in IT so most programs I could find a way around, but with CE if I were to disable the program my accountability partner (wife) would be notified. It's not cheap ($110?) but viewing porn is costlier (marriage, family, joy in the Lord...all are compromised when viewing porn.)
By the way, I'm writing this at 3 am as a took some cold medicine that is causing insomnia (hate insomnia!). 3 am...prime porn viewing hour yet there's no temptation as I know CE is running in the background.

I Highly Recommend these books as they really give insight into this insidious venomous killer called pornography."Every Heart Restored" by Fred and Brenda Stoeker ISBN 157856784X,and "An Affair Of The Mind" by Laurie Hall ISBN 1561794643.These resources,applied with much prayer will help in bringing about God's salvation and restoration to your marriage.

wshare you have to act on what you know to be the truth.You know by the conviction of the Holy Spirit that this is both unclean and destructive.Be not deceived by the subtile serpent as Eve was.Eve entertained the contorting lies of the devil.You're marriage is already over if you do not pray, pray, pray, that God intervenes.Your marriage was already over when your husband willingly allowed others into the marriage bed of his mind,it is not too late however for God to do what He is famous for,that being create a miracle for you and your husband.Believe me I speak from experience.I have had to struggle against pornography since I was about 10,I am now 45.During the entire 33 years of being a Christian I have had to engage in a life and death struggle against it,and have not always won.For years I lived the double life also while my wife and I watched porn together.This has resulted in the complete destruction of our intimate life,only God can restore it now.

I have also tried watching it with him, but some of the images upset me too much, and then I really don't want to be touched in any sexual way by him. I think we have a healthy sex life, and it is very regular, but I find if we skip one day of sexual relations, he is up at 5 in the morning on teh computer. I wake up alone, with a sick feeling in my stomach. I feel as if I have done something wrong, and at the same time I am so angry at him for making me feel that way. I would really like to talk to someone about this. We go to church occasionally, but we don't have a personal relationship with the pastor, so I don't know where to turn.

I am confused and angered by my spouse's use of pornography. I have tried explaining to him how it makes me feel like I am not desireable, but he soothes me with sweet words and declarations of his love and dedication. He claims it is just something all men do, and there's no way he's going to stop this "harmless" interest, so I should just never ask about it, and not check up on his internet history. I can't help it. If he's home alone all day, and it appears he hasn't done a thing, I check the sites his visited, and see dozens of videos and pictures viewed. I tried to make a compromise: never download anything to our home computer where I (or the children) could see it, and never bring home a video or DVD. He has done both. I tried logging in to the sites he views to see what his interest is, but I find nothing healthy or erotic, only negative images. Is it possible to convince someone to cut off all access to porn, without seeming like a control-freak laying down an ultimatum?

I am struggling with this problem right now. I just found out that my husband of 4 years has been looking @ internet porn. When I confronted him, he reinsured me that that he would never cheat on me & that I was the only one for him. But that was not the issue.
Then last night I caught him on it again. I have not confronted him again, I’m scared!
When I search in the internet for solutions, they tell me just to accept in and move on. But I can’t accept it. I should have to!

Can anyone please give me some advice!!

I can totally relate to this artical. I am going through a divorce after 30 years of marriage. My husband started out with soft porn then asked me to watch also. We bought into the idea that it would help our sex life. After 15 years we graduated to hard core all the while going to church and living this double life. After two years of therapy with a christian therapist that my husband only saw 3 times and refused to go back I filed for divorce. He had several affairs and was asking me if he could have sex with a man.
Porn destroyed my life, my marriage and my family. I allowed it thinking that it would save my marriage since when I refused he would get mad. We lost our home, our business and our savings and I believe with all my heart that God took away what was most important to us because we would not heed his warnings.
I found out yesterday that my husband while still going to church and starting to serve in church has a profile on line to meet women for erotica. Sad Sad