I recall reading an article as an undergraduate regarding legalism. I do not remember the name of the author, nor the title of the article. I do remember a line from the article. The author was noting that many churches have rules for behavior that are not derived from the Bible. The rules seem important to the creator of the rule but should not be imposed on others when such rules make one “more strict than God.”
I thought of that mostly forgotten article when I read a post by Brian Pengelly (”When You’re Told that What God Has Done Is Not Enough”) on Bridging the Gap, the blog of New Directions. In that post, Brian describes a speech to a local youth group where he acknowledges that he is same-sex attracted. Even though Brian has not been in a same-sex relationship since high school, is married with kids and does not advocate same-sex relationships, he was criticized severely by several youth ministers who attended the meeting.
Brian attributed the reaction to a theological difference - one I have discussed before on my personal blog - and that is the difference between charismatic and non-charismatic Protestant Christianity. Brian’s specific concern relates to “Word of Faith” theology, a view that
…God has promised to heal every area of a believer’s life right now and given them the authority to command that healing into existence.
Remember James Stabile? He was the young man that was supposedly delivered from homosexuality during a Pentecostal street meeting. Problem was, he wasn’t.
Brian elaborates:
Because of this, my testimony was a great threat to them because God had simply not done enough in my life. Despite the fact that I could testify that I had not been in a relationship with another male since high school, despite the fact that I was able to enjoy a happy marriage to a woman, despite the fact that God had clearly been using me in ministry for over a decade….my testimony was not acceptable because God had not completely taken away my attraction to men.
Brian knows the thinking because he used to be a part of the Word of Faith perspective.
The authors assumed that because I was telling my story and had my experiences, I had never confessed my sin or had prayer ministry to cast out the demons in my life that may have entered because of being abused. In fact they were so bold as to write:
The bible teaches we R 2 pray 4 help frm God to deal w/ temptation: it's still our responsibility to work thru it. If what those people say is true, someone who is a liar or a gossiper should have no more problems after praying to be relieved of those temptations? Trust me, that is not true, and yet those are considered "lesser" sins.(NB: regardless of the "severity" of the sin, all sin separates us from God. When you miss a target, even if only by a little, you still missed the target. Sins R equally serious in God's eyes).
It shouldn't be less acceptable 2 have a person dealing w/ sexual temptation-of any kind/orientation-than 4 a liar or gossiperto sin, yet ppl seem ok w/ that.Ppl need 2 wake-up, help each other deal w/ all sin & 4give/love more. Kudos 4 your efrts!