I have dated women that have claimed to believe in God. Some to be a Christian. All have failed. The strongest Christian I was engaged with. She couldnt't even tell me she wanted to break up, she misled and used me for almost a year before I said enough. Looking back I feel she wanted perfection that only Jesus or God could give.


About six months ago I started seeing someone who was not a Christian. I still attend church and she encourages it. We go to church events and pray together saying grace etc... I have sent parts of the Song of Songs to her. She asked me where I learned to treat someone so good and I replied "The Bible and my Pastor". I have showed her some good works but it's still a work in progress. We love one another. I have over 26 things in common with her. From the same hobbies to the same cell phone voice mail code. I am working with my Pastor on this and I am aware of the warnings. She loves me for who I am.