You make a good point and clearly you believe in the God of Abraham, and raise your children in the ways of God. I was raised Catholic and all those years, never believed that Jesus died for me. I promise I was not saved and was headed to hell, a life eternal without God. I was born again and baptized at 35. I was "baptized" an infant. We were all "baptized" and one of my sisters still doesn't believe in Christ as the Son of God. As a Christian, I do not consider myself Catholic but do enjoy the occasional wedding because I now accept the Gospel. Sadly, many friends of ours who are Catholic have their children "baptized", recite their vows at this holy ceremony and then argue with you at lunch afterwards that Jesus can't be the only Way. This is the part that saddens me about many Catholics. While I have met a few that confess Jesus, in my experience, many have yet to believe that He really is Lord and Savior. Blessings to you and your family.