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Single Parenting 101

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    Jennifer Maggio is considered a leading authority on single parents and womens issues. She is an award-winning author and speaker who draws from her own experiences through abuse, homelessness, and teen pregnancy to inspire audiences everywhere. She is founder of The Life of a Single Mom Ministries and writes for dozens of publications. She has been featured with hundreds of media outlets, including The 700 Club, Daystar Television, Moody Radio, Focus on the Family, and many more. For more information, visit thelifeofasinglemom.com.

  • 2014 Aug 19
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Proverbs 31:27-28 “She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing to laziness.  Her children stand and bless her.”  As parents, I think we all have that deep desire that as our children become adults, they will stand and recognize all the sacrifices we made, the rules we implemented, and bless us for it.  They will be proud of how we raised them.  We hope to see the fruits of our labor.

I read the above passage recently for the 100th time and something stood out to me that had never stood out before.  We tend to cling to “her children stand and bless her” because that is the result.  But………….what are the four words prior to it?   ”…SUFFERS NOTHING TO LAZINESS.”

It is not by accident that the words are placed strategically there.  Parenting is work — simple as that, even if you have a two-parent home, but certainly when you are a single parent.  It requires intention and planning.   This is when children feel secure — no matter their age.  Too often, with the weight of financial planning, emotional stresses, and exhaustion, we simply “give in” and do not effectively parent.  We lose structure, because we are too tired to implement it.   I know I have been guilty.

As single parents, it is crucial to understand that this is a season a life — a short span of time.  Even if you parent alone for 18 years, it is still simply a short span of time, considering the length of your whole life.  In such a short time, our children become adults.  The last thing any of us would want is that our children would look back and wish that their parents had provided them more structure, more discipline, and given them more time.

I want to encourage all the single parents out there that even during your darkest hour, your absolute valley, when you are most exhausted and do not feel like parenting……….when you push through, when you sacrifice, when you muster up that last bit of energy to provide a safe, secure environment for your kids, it is ALL worth it.  For one day, they will stand and bless you.

Author/speaker, Jennifer Maggio, is one of the nation’s leading authorities on single parents and women’s issues. She is an award-winning author and founder of The Life of a Single Mom Ministries. She currently oversees one of the nation’s largest single moms support groups and has helped to launch more than 1500 others in churches around the globe. She is a regular on radio and television. For more information, visit http://www.thelifeofasinglemom.com.