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5 Things Pastors Should Never Do

  • Joe McKeever
    Joe McKeever says he has written dozens of books, but has published none. That refers to the 1,000+ articles on various subjects (prayer, leadership, church, pastors) that can be found on his website -- -- and which are reprinted by online publications everywhere. His articles appear in a number of textbooks and other collections. Retired from "official" ministry since the summer of 2009, Joe stays busy drawing a daily cartoon for Baptist Press (, as an adjunct professor at New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary, writing for Baptist MenOnline for the North American Mission Board, and preaching/drawing/etc for conventions and churches across America. Over a 42 year period, McKeever pastored 6 churches (the last three were the First Baptist Churches of Columbus, MS; Charlotte, NC; and Kenner, LA). Followed by 5 years as Director of Missions for the 135 SBC churches of metro New Orleans, during which hurricane katrina devastated the city and destroyed many churches. Joe is married to Margaret, the father of three adults, and the proud grandfather of eight terrific young people. He holds degrees from Birmingham-Southern College (History, 1962), and New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary (Masters in Church History, 1967, and Doctorate of Ministry in Evangelism, 1973). Joe's father was a coal miner who married a farmer's daughter. Carl and Lois McKeever, both of whom lived past 95 years of age, produced 6 children, with Joe and Ronnie being ministers. Joe grew up near Nauvoo, Alabama, and attended high school at Double Springs. Joe's life verse is Job 4:4, "Your words have stood men on their feet."
  • 2016 Jan 06
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Don’t ever resign your church in a fit of passion. In a rush of anger.

Do that and you’ll inflict great harm on the church and ruin all the good will you have accumulated by years of faithful service.

That’s a huge no-no for preachers.

Last Sunday, I was pleased to see a military chaplain back in town, visiting his family and our church with his wife and children.  We reminisced over a little history going back to when he was a local pastor. One Sunday morning, exasperated over the lack of faithfulness from the church members, as the pastor, he had unloaded on the congregation and ended up walking out on them in the middle of his message.  Then, if that were not bad enough, in that evening’s service, he began by apologizing. But he kept on talking. The more he talked and explained, the more the anger still festering inside broke loose and spewed out onto the congregation. Once again, he walked out, leaving the congregation sitting there stunned.

The next day I mediated between him and his deacons, as they accepted his resignation.

That was a number of years ago, and he tells me that, like untold millions of people before him, the Army made him grow up.

Okay. Do not do that.  Do not vent your anger on your congregation. Not ever.

Here are five others no-no’s that come to mind….

1) Never violate a confidence, either in or out of the pulpit.

“But that story is too good not to tell.” Ever heard that? Or worse, have you ever said it?

If you must, ask the individual for permission to tell the story no closer than a hundred miles away and assure them you will camouflage details and change names so no one would ever make the connection.

2) Never tell a story on your wife without her full support.

And I mean enthusiastic affirmation, not begrudging. However, don’t be surprised if she never gives permission for you to use anything she said or did.  Most wives do not appreciate becoming the subject of her husband’s sermon.

Violating that will result in conditions you would not wish on your worst enemy, pastor.  It’s not worth it, believe me.

That said, if you can, see if she will agree to let you tell the story as having happened to “a pastor I know and his wife.”  If you do this, you must rehearse it 23 times to make sure nothing slips out that shouldn’t.

3) Never fail to minister to someone because “they don’t deserve it.”  

Be thankful you are not given what you deserve.  “Freely you have received; freely give.”

4) Never make a promise you do not keep. 

If you said you’d look something up and get back to the questioner, do that promptly.  If you fail in this and remember it sometime later, write them a note now with a sincere apology.

And on that subject, never fail to apologize when an apology is in order.  Far from that diminishing you, you will grow in the minds and hearts of those to whom you apologize.

5) Never take the week between Christmas and New Year’s as personal vacation time.  

It’s the quietest week of the year, and a great time to go into the office for a few hours each day and get some work done.  Since nothing is happening at church, you and your family will have the evenings to yourself.  I always loved that week.

Publication date: January 6, 2015