Authoritative Moms Influence Kids' Friends
Jim LiebeltJim is Senior Writer, Editor and Researcher for the HomeWord Center for Youth and Family at Azusa Pacific University. Jim has over 25 years of experience as a youth and family ministry specialist, and has been on the HomeWord staff since 1998. He has served over the years as a pastor, author, youth ministry trainer, adjunct college instructor and speaker. Jim’s culture blog and parenting articles appear on HomeWord.com. Jim is a contributing author of culture and parenting articles to Crosswalk.com. Jim and his wife Jenny live in Olympia, WA.
- 2012 Oct 09
Mothers who are strict with their teen children also influence the behavior of their teens' friends, a new study suggests.
In fact, the researchers found, the friends were 40 percent less likely to get drunk, 38 percent less likely to binge drink, 39 percent less likely to smoke and 43 percent less likely to smoke marijuana, compared with friends of teens whose mothers were less strict.
"Authoritative parenting -- using a style that balances warmth and communication with appropriate control and supervision -- is not only associated with reduced substance abuse in our own children, but it is also associated with reduced substance abuse in our own children's friends," said lead researcher Holly Shakya, a postdoctoral research fellow with the Gates Foundation Social Networks Project at the University of California, San Diego School of Medicine.
"We also find that some of the effect may be spreading through the adolescent social network -- parents' behaviors affect their children, and that effect spreads to their friends," she added.
The report was published Oct. 8 in the online edition of the Archives of Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine.
Source: U.S. News & World Report