Matthew Henry, the early 18th century English
preacher and author of the renowned commentary that bears his name, begins his
examination of Proverbs 31 with the following words:
When children are under the
mother's eye, she has an opportunity of fashioning their minds aright. Those
who are grown up, should often call to mind the good teaching they received
This seems appropriate in light of Mother’s
day and therefore I want ‘to call to mind the good teaching I received as a
child’ and pay tribute to my mother
who has been an instrument of God’s saving grace in my life.
Ours was a family torn apart by divorce when I was only 6-years-old.
I know too well the destructive effects that the dissolution of the family
brings. That which God intended is broken, and everyone involved suffers.
Things are not as they should be and what is desperately needed is God’s
restorative grace and mercy upon all involved. My mother was the instrument of
this grace in my life and that of our family as a whole.
When I was 12, my mother, now remarried, was brought to
faith in Christ while attending a Billy Graham Crusade and this was the visible
beginning of God’s redemptive work in our family and my life personally.
I remember my mother taking me to church and constantly
sharing with me the story of Jesus and what he had done for her and how his
saving work on the cross was available to me. However, my adolescent years were
marked by severe rebellion and generally self-destructive behavior. I, like so
many children of divorce, was angry, driven by a sense of rejection and an
unsatisfied longing for love and acceptance. Of course, I would qualify this by
saying that my sinful anger arose out of my own unmet sense of entitlement, believing
that I was first, either deserving of or somehow merited unconditional love and
acceptance and second, that such love and acceptance could ultimately be satisfied
by others. This misguided perception of ourselves coupled with the misplaced
expectation upon others, has only produced heartbreak, disappointment, and
Suffice it to say that I was not responding to my mother’s entreaties to turn from my rebellious sin and call upon His mercy. I was stiff-necked and hard-hearted. In biblical terms, I was a fool! Nonetheless, my mother never relented. She never shrank from speaking the truth and she prayed for me constantly. Ironically, even when I was at my most rebellious, I knew my mother loved me and that she would never forsake me. The fact that she persisted in pressing the Gospel when I was so resistant to it confirmed this in a way that I did not fully understand. I knew this represented a “risk” on her part. She risked losing me and yet she persisted because she knew this was the only Truth that could ever save me. She was willing to risk everything for my sake. For those mothers who are discouraged by the spiritual state of their children, take heart; I bear witness to the fact that the Lord can and does respond to the prayers of a grieving mother!
When the Lord, in His mercy, brought me to repentance and
saving faith at the age of 21, my mother was the first person I called. I can
still remember exactly where I was and the sense of joy at letting her know
that I had been listening all those
years. The Lord had heard her prayers and thankfully blessed her faithfulness. These
twenty-five years later, my mother remains a spiritual mentor, wonderful
friend, and precious blessing in my life who I can always count on to speak the
truth in love.
My mother was the spring through which the Lord poured out
His grace and mercy to me, my step-father, two sisters, two step-brothers, a
brother-in-law, a sister-in-law, and at least eight grandchildren. The Lord has
indeed restored “what the locusts had eaten” and what sin tried to destroy. Today,
ours is a family of faith in which relationships have been renewed and true
healing experienced. This “family of faith” will be my mother’s greatest
legacy, and I pray this is so for generations to come. She has fought, and
continues to fight the “good fight.” Her children and her children’s children
arise and call her blessed!
King Lemuel concludes his well-known description of the
“virtuous woman” taught to him by his
mother and recorded in Proverbs 31 with these words:
the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.
Mom, I am the fruit of your hands and I praise you in these “gates,” this public place where all may know of your steadfast faith and devotion. I love you and wish you the happiest of Mother’s Days!
© 2009 by S. Michael Craven
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