This morning I received a life coaching request from a
28-yr-old, working in the area of professional specialty that match his
academic degrees.
In response to the question: "Why are you looking for a
change?" he wrote: I am very unhappy
with what I do. I am usually a passionate person and like for what I do to have
meaning and to be of value to me. In my current job, I am not able to achieve
these things. I seem to be on the
sidelines of my own life, waiting for it to begin.
This year is likely to be a time for anxiously listening for
company rumors, resume polishing and exploring new options. For some of you the
news is already in – downsizing and the accompanying layoffs often come in more
of a flurry than any snowstorm as bosses look to trim their fixed costs in an attempt to have a fresh start for a more profitable year. According
to Challenger, Gray & Christmas more than 100,000 positions were slashed in
December in two of the last three years. And it seems that for every person who
loses their job, there are 1,000 more who are worried about it.
Don’t get caught unprepared. You should see yourself as
self-employed in some sense – even if you have only one client currently. That
will remove the feeling of being trapped and vulnerable. In addition:
Re-assess your direction. Are you on track, or do you need a
re-alignment?
Recognize that a change (even if unexpected or unwelcome) often
wakes up old dreams. What were the dreams you had as a child? What are those
recurring themes in the things you dream of doing?
Stay informed. You should be reading magazines like Fast Company, INC, and Entrepreneur to see the best new ideas
being introduced. Don’t count on knowledge you got in college 20 years ago to
insure your value today.
Make age and experience your assets. The experience you have today
should make you more valuable as a
candidate than what you could offer 15-20 years ago.
Be ready to document your value. Be able to describe unique areas
of competence you have refined and developed.
Be willing to look at all the options available to you. Perhaps
you’ve been too narrow in looking at ways to put legs on your dreams.
Welcome 2008 as a year for evaluation. Just maybe you’re ready to
get off the sidelines and begin living the life you were born for!
