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Discover the Book - Oct. 30, 2007

  • 2007 Oct 30

Grace-Energized-Women: No Slander and No Excess


Christ's church was born into a sin-warped, sin-darkened world of mixed-up marriages, sin-scarred lives, and confused families.  

But men and women who were gloriously saved did not automatically become great wives and mothers, or husbands and fathers. When they came to Christ and were forgiven, God graciously gave them everything they needed to become godly wives, mothers, husbands, and fathers. But, they needed something else. They needed worship services that taught them to believe correctly, and then they needed small group discipleship times to learn how to behave correctly. 

These new believers needed coaching, training, modeling, and encouraging in a one-on-one relationship. Godly behavior is a series of choices, and those men and women had to be nurtured in daily skills that would lead to loving marriages and families. 

And that is the vital ministry which we find captured for us in Titus two. 

Christ's Church Used Coaches in Godly Living 

Christ's church grew into the potent force for changing the world in the quiet nurturing sessions that Titus two men and women performed in practical discipleship. Just as important as the preaching and teaching of the doctrines of God's Word was the modeling and nurturing of individual saints through practical hands-on lessons in godly living. 

The building blocks of Christ's church are Spirit-filled men and women whose lives are given daily as obedient servants of God.   

God wants men and women that will mentor, nurture, and coach godly living for His church. These individuals believe that God has called them to touch one life at a time for His glory. 

For just a moment please follow along in your Bibles in Titus 2:1-8, as I again read those 12 special character traits for men and women. Then we will go back to our word-by-word look at the Titus two woman of God.

v.1 But as for you, speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine: v.2 that the older men be:

  1. Sober,
  2. Reverent,
  3. Temperate,
  4. Sound in faith,
  5. [Sound in] love,
  6. [Sound in] patience; 

v. 3 the older women likewise, that they be

  1. Reverent in behavior,
  2. Not slanderers,
  3. Not given to much wine,
  4. Teachers of good things— v. 4
  5. That they admonish 

the young women

  1. To love their husbands,
  2. To love their children, v. 5
  3. To be discreet,
  4. Chaste,
  5. Homemakers,
  6. Good,
  7. Obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.

 v. 6 Likewise exhort the young men

  1. To be sober-minded, v. 7
  2. In all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works;
  3. In doctrine showing integrity,
  4. Reverence,
  5. Incorruptibility, v. 8
  6. Sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil to say of you. (NKJV) 

When God gets to pick the curriculum for His Church, what does He choose to be taught? He lays down twelve vital, godly character qualities for women and 12 vital, godly character qualities for men. 

Twelve Godly Characteristics of Highly Useful Women 

Women who are highly useful to God have these characteristics. The long-term goal of their lives is geared towards being useful to God. Parents who want their children be useful for the Lord begin early on to point their children towards the high calling and great joy of being a Titus two woman and the Titus two man. 

The whole goal of a Titus two woman is to train younger women in Biblical, simple-to-measure, Spirit-empowered, love-based living.  

Paul did not call for Titus as the pastor to train all the women in these qualities God wanted them to cultivate; rather he called upon the godly older women of Christ's church. He singles out the women of faith, those who had already learned to love their husbands, learned to love their children, and learned to be reverent, godly, modest and wise, and charged them with seeking out and meeting with every younger woman in the church. 

Now, let's begin a step by step look at all 12 characteristics of a Titus two woman. Paul lists them in the verses we already read. Here they are one-by-one.  

The older women are to have mastered all 12, and the younger women are trained in the last seven.  

First the godly character of the older woman in the faith is profiled. Without a reverent lifestyle behaving like a living sacrifice, dedicated to God, none of the rest even matter. That is why Paul starts here first! 

v. 3a "the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior”  (1) 

Paul first draws a word from the Roman world to capture the entire bearing of these godly role model women in Christ's church. The Greek word translated “reverent” is used only here in the Bible, and it conveys the idea of priest-like. That word for “acting as a representative of a god" is the word Paul uses to describe the devout and godly character of the Titus two woman. Older women are to live like holy priests serving in the presence of God. Their sacred, personal devotion to the Lord has slowly come to influence every aspect of their lives.   

So a godly woman (or any believer) won’t allow anything to stimulate their flesh away from God; and they insist on only feeding their mind with what encourages and increases being “reverent in behavior.” 

Godly older women have simply taken Romans 12:1-2, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, and Galatians 2:20 seriously.  

  • Romans 12:1-2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. NKJV 
  • 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?20 For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s. NKJV 
  • Galatians 2:20 “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” NKJV 

They have presented themselves to the Lord, they have begun to live life the way God asked them to live—as a walking temple of God, as a consecrated priest of God, as a living sacrifice, and as a bondservant of the Lord. 

This sermon will continue tomorrow October 31st as we look more in depth at godly women.

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