This weekend some of the family went to hear the Beatle's tribute show Rain. The actor/musicians do a pretty remarkable job of looking and sounding like the Fab 4. So it only seemed appropriate to feature a Beatle's song for the iPod Devotional.
"Can't Buy Me Love" reached the top of the charts for the group. When asked about the deeper meaning of the song Paul McCartney gave this reply. "The idea behind it was that all these material possessions are all very well, but they won't buy me what I really want."
I'll buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel alright
I'll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright
'Cause I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love
I'll give you all I got to give if you say you love me too
I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you
I don't care too much for money, money can't buy me love
A couple of years later McCartney wondered if the lyrics were untrue. "It should have been "Can Buy Me Love" when reflecting on the perks that money and fame had brought him. I wonder how Paul McCartney feels today with forty-six more years of life mileage on the odometer. I would suspect he now feels the original idea was correct. Money really can't buy you love.
It is a deception of the world that money can buy you love or happiness or peace. I will be honest and report that I would prefer to have money over the alternative. But I have learned that money is in no way a predictor of happiness. Some of the most miserable people I know could buy and sell me with their pocket change. It is human nature to believe that more money, some possession gained or a title achieved will finally make us happy. Too often that is just not true.
I have been on both sides of the money thing. And I can tell you without reservation that money is unrelated to happiness. Happiness is seeing my wife at the end of a long day. Enjoying dinner with my wonderful sons (and daughter-in-laws). Laughing with friends. Being greeted by a Labrador Retriever that thinks I am the greatest human being. Ever.
Happiness is watching a baby toddle. A child smile. An elderly couple look at one another with that look that only decades can develop. Happiness is seeing the sun rise and hearing the birds welcome that sight. Happiness is connecting with the One who made me. That is what I was created for and my happiness is found in the simplest things of life. There is joy all around us. I choose to look for those things. Yet life happens and sometimes joy is a bit harder to choose.
In his letter to the church at Corinth Paul made the amazing statement that "I am overwhelmed with joy despite all our troubles." (2 Cor 7:4, The Message)
Where does that attitude come from? I can guarantee it doesn't come from money. Because we can "rent" what appears to be happiness for a season. Our culture continually confuses money and stuff with real happiness.
I choose to embrace life. I accept suffering because I am in relationship with a God who understands suffering and offers comfort that is inexplicable. Joni and I have stared down heartache and tragedy and found peace. Jesus had a thought or two on the source of joy.
"I've told you these things for a purpose: that my joy might be your joy, and your joy wholly mature. This is my command: Love one another the way I loved you. This is the very best way to love." (John 15, The Message)
I am nowhere close to saying that my joy is wholly mature. But I have hope as I write this. Hope that transcends sports cars, money, and even the difficulties of life. I have hope because I have found the source of joy. Paul wrote a joyful letter to the church at Philippi.
Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God's wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It's wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life. (Phil 4, The Message)
The Beatles were right. Money can't buy you love. Placing Christ at the center of your life allows you to find joy. But you can't buy that either. It is a gift of grace. The gift is available to anyone. We just have to receive it.