Adultery Starts in the Heart

The article is very well written and true. I've only been married 2 years and my husband and I have had problems with intimacy. As a result of this the enemy set noticeable tempations before me. But I realized one thing, I have to be open with my husband letting him know about these temptations. I realize when I keep things a secret from my husband that's an open door for the enemy to come in and destroy our marriage. I am a Christian and do not believe in divorce. However, both my husband and I come from Broken Marriages (we are determined to do this God's way) My heart goes out to the 2 responses before mine. The Word says God hates divorce Malachi 2:16. Jhn 16:33 In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." We find our joy in Christ. God didn't call us to be happy but holy before him. Before you give up on your marriage(kls1)try praying, counseling, anything, but don't let the devil take another marriage.

I agree. I work in a male dominated profession. Sometimes it's really hard. My husband has no respect for me and is verbally and emotionally abusive. Our marriage, at best, is not very good. Sex is pretty much over. So when the men I work with value my observations and treat me like I'm actually a person, I find it hard not to gravitate toward them and away from my husband. There is one man in particular is a very precious friend to me. That's all it is, friendship, but it could be so much more. We have promised each other that all we will have is friendship. Although there has never been any physical contact, I am more honest, open and have more intimacy with him that I do my husband (it's safer, he never attacks me). Maybe in a way this is adultery, I don't know.
I do know as soon as I am financial able and my children are older, I will divorce my husband. I believe God will release from this situation. I have right to happy and not abused. May my friend will be ther

I found the article right on point. My husband and I are going thru the trials of an affair that happened from 1989-1995. He did not tell me-I just recently found copies of letters he sent to other person. HE TELLS ME HE REMEMBERS VERY LITTLE OF THAT time period. So the only info I have are from the letters. The last letter he sent to her he told he was going to ask for a divorce. This is someone he went with before he met me and had planned to marry. He wrote in the the letter that he had always loved her from the time she was 15. that she would always be his choice. But now he tells me that was not true. We have been married for 38 yrs-did I beleive we had a good marriage,for the most part I did. I am having a very tough time with all of it- I am a Christian and do not beleive in divorce.