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madmax7
4/16/2008 10:49 AM
it was a real blessing to read and a lot of help in a time of need thank you for shareing your heart and soul with me my God richlly bless you
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nixmusiq
12/7/2007 10:43 AM
I thought it was a good article overall.
HOWEVER, I think there's an important component that was omitted. It is said that many times adultery reflects an area of lack in the marriage. Is there a place to examine that in this whole process? When someone is attracted to a person other than their spouse, should they also ask 'Why', not with a view to validate any ensuing sin, but as an opportunity to address some important issues within the marriage if necessary?
We sin because we are sinful, because we deceive ourselves, because we surrender to temptation. BUT we also sin when we reach out to fill a LEGITIMATE need in an ILLEGITIMATE way.
Is that a valid point to add to a Christian discussion about affair-proofing a marriage, or recovering from the affair?
HOWEVER, I think there's an important component that was omitted. It is said that many times adultery reflects an area of lack in the marriage. Is there a place to examine that in this whole process? When someone is attracted to a person other than their spouse, should they also ask 'Why', not with a view to validate any ensuing sin, but as an opportunity to address some important issues within the marriage if necessary?
We sin because we are sinful, because we deceive ourselves, because we surrender to temptation. BUT we also sin when we reach out to fill a LEGITIMATE need in an ILLEGITIMATE way.
Is that a valid point to add to a Christian discussion about affair-proofing a marriage, or recovering from the affair?
