I've been so hurt by criticism, it is difficult to 'hide' such deep hurt. I can't fake positive actions toward someone who purposefully hurts me. I avoid interactions with my spouse to minimize critical remarks. This article is difficult to apply to my situation.

Thank you Susie for giving practical advice on how to love even when going crazy.
God commands us to love...it's not an option, but knowing how is the hard part.
I appreciate the practical side because so often people are told to give up the relationship...you just aren't compatible.
Truth be known...no couple is ever fully compatible and only by agreeing to work through differences of any size and being committed to that does compatibility grow.
It's a process and not an instant answer, as Susie says that you realize it's not easy. So plan on working hard and then love unconditionally using these to do that.
If I gave up every time someone failed me...I'd have no friends...and that's where our society continues to misunderstand relationships. Life is hard, so grow up and face the hardness of it, and then work the "rough" soil to grow plants that give seed to fruit that can be tastefully enjoyed. It's worth the effort.

What a good article !! Thank you. ;o)