This is great, but what about the other end when a single person moves in on a married one, or a married one reels in a single one. Single adulterers are just as guilty and vulnerable and need strategies and warnings that are obviously different. That is, they don't have marriages to retreat to or cultivate. And the responsibility of other people (spouse and kids) is less directly obvious. More prayer and the word are essential to every Christian life. What else?

This is an excellent article and I would advise all married couples to guard their marriage. This is something I didn't do. Unfortunately, my wife had an emotional affair with a married deacon in our Church. It was a relationship of sin, but one where he attemtped to Biblically justify it and convince her that it was ok. Ok for him to buy things for her, ok to take days trips to different locations. Again I would advise anyone to guard their marriage.

An excellent article. No political agenda, just good advice.

Mac

Very informative and practicle. I enjoyed it so much that I sent it to my daughter and son-in-law. Sometimes returning a smile,or making eye contact can lead to more than bargained for when there are elements missing from a marriage.

This article is GREAT. As a married, Christian man I have been deeply grieved with the infidelity of church leadership--but more so I have grown tired and frustrated with the fact that when these things happen few want to talk about how it happened and how to safeguard against it. There are mistakes in life that I have made simply because someone told me something was wrong but they never told me how to avoid it and how to recognize it. This article is a great building tool. THANK YOU!!!