• What are the topics we avoid?

• Why do you think we avoid them?

• What can we do to make it safer to talk about the tough issues?

• Is there any action we must take to end certain problems in our lives?

Now, quit whistling and make a commitment together that you will practice speaking the truth in love. Even if it hurts. It’s better than finding stinky elephants lounging in your living room.

This article is second in a series on nine mistakes most couples make. Read part 1: A Critical Mistake Most Couples Make.


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This article was adapted from Nine Critical Mistakes Most Couples Make (Harvest House Publishers, 2005).

Dr. David B. Hawkins is a Visiting Professor at International Christian University and specializes in interpersonal relationship counseling as well as domestic violence and emotional abuse in relationships. He has been a frequent guest on Moody Radio Mid-day Connection, Focus on the Family, and At Home Live. You can visit his website at www.YourRelationshipDoctor.com or contact Dr. Hawkins directly at YourRelationshipDoctor@yahoo.com.


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