What is a Woman to do if Her Husband is Using Pornography?

Soon after my son was born, I stumbled on my husband doing more than just looking at internet porn. I was more than devestated. I had asked and asked and asked him if he was into it (becuase I was 100% against it). Deep inside I knew he did, and it was mainly the reason why I kept asking. I knew he did, yet I asked him. I put value on his trust in me and the ability to confide in me, as the leader of this family and my life time partner. Things got worse. I got worse. It was killing me. I hit rock bottom, and massive depression. But I had finally realized, that it wasn't me. He had been doing this WAY before we even met. His ex-wife disagreed with it as well. He had found it in his fathers mattress. He now says he has stopped (which happened over night) but its now hard for me to trust him, becuase I was lied to the entire time of my marriage. Things are better, but my guard is not down. Overall, this article doesn't help me, as I'm still hurting and improper healing.

I too am a man that has struggled with pornography. In my first marriage, which was by no means a Christian marriage, pornography and so forth was acceptable. But now in my second marriage I see where this really hurt my wife as well as myself. For those men looking for a way to fight this, I recommend the book that really changed my life, called Every Man's Battle. It is a Christian book and it will make a difference as we fight the daily battles of temptation.

This article is worthless. It does not help in any way. All it does is draw a woman to the idea that she may be able to us this as a way to justify divorcing her husband. I am a man addicted to porn. I am on this website seeking help. I know this article was not aimed at me but rather my wife but it offers no solutions other than get couples counseling. My porn addiction has NOTHING to do with my wife. Or my marriage. It has to do with the bombardment of sink I see EVERYWHERE. And yes I will agree that internet porn is a huge problem. It is secret, private, so easy to get in to. A simple Google search of any woman's name will reveal seeds no man should see. Do a simple Google search on Amy, a common female name, and it will reveal pure poison. It has nothing to do with my wife. It has nothing to do with my marriage. It has everything to do with the barrage of temptation men are exposed to every day. Write me an article on how to avoid that if you want to help someone.