We are often far more critical of others than we are of ourselves. We are incensed when someone has wronged us, but overlook our own tendencies to harm others. What if we practiced overlooking the slights of others? What if we really looked for the good in others? I suspect we would find it and be happier for it. Scripture says, “For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Matthew 7:2


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