2. Devotions:  Lent can be a time of family focus on the meaning of the Christian life.  You may want to commit to a regular pattern of family worship - daily, weekly, or whenever you can.  Or you may post Bible verses, especially the words of Jesus, on the refrigerator, bathroom mirrors, wherever a busy family is sure to see them.  Talk about them at dinner or on the way to school - especially how verses apply to events in our daily lives.   

3. Giving up:  Traditionally, especially in Europe, during Lent there were no weddings, no dancing, no singing.  No flowers or alleluias in churches.  Some families may find spiritual value in giving up something for Lent - television, sweets, video games - not as a penance, but as an outer symbol of dying to self during a season of spiritual reflection.                

4. Mite box: Select a charity that helps those in need.  Help your children decorate a box with a slot on top.  Display where everyone at home will remember to contribute their change.  On Easter, empty box, count together, and put a check in the mail.  This custom can be directly related to the preceding one: giving up to give.

5. Pretzels: Bake your own pretzels (check your own cookbooks, library or Internet for recipe - or buy the frozen ones).  Pretzels originated as early Christian Lenten treats, designed in the form of arms crossed in prayer.

6. Easter Seals: Support or volunteer for this organization, founded in 1934 as a means to raise funds to help children with disabilities. In the original words, “Easter means Resurrection and New Life, and the rehabilitation of crippled children means new life and activity . . . physically, mentally, spiritually.”

7. Jonah: In Matthew 12:39-41, Jesus, points to the story of Jonah as a sign of his own destiny.  So this is a great time to review it with your children, discussing the issues of sin, obedience, and God’s mercy.

8. Easter in Cyberspace: Check out www.njwebworks.com/easter/ for many, many Christian Easter links, including history, poetry, drama, and daily meditations. 

9. Giving: While we usually think of Christmas for gift-giving, Easter has a richer heritage. God gave His Son. Jesus gave His life. Find ways to give unconditionally: money to the homeless person on the corner, treats for those in nursing homes, old clothes to children in another country.  Jesus told us clearly, “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.”  (Matthew 25:40)

10. Handel’s Messiah: Invest in a CD or tape and bathe your family in this beautiful classic, clearly composed under divine inspiration - each segment a Bible verse prophesying the birth, life, death, and finally the resurrection of Jesus. (The Hallelujah Chorus was a celebration for Easter morning following the Lenten absence of alleluias.)

Barbara shares more ideas for Holy Week 2009 (April 4 - 12) and Easter (April 13) in 15 Ways to Observe Holy Week as a Family.

This article was originally published in Crosswalk Parenting on February 4, 2008.

Barbara Curtis has 12 children - including three adopted sons with Down syndrome - and 10 grandchildren so far. She is  also an award-winning author with nine books and 800+ articles in print publications including Focus on the Family, Guideposts, Christian Parenting Today, and The Washington Times.

Barbara is a popular speaker at MOPS and women's events, as well as writers' conferences.  Online you can find her at MommyLife and Mommy, Teach Me!.