I watched recently as a couple shared their tears with one another, tears of regret for how they had treated each other for years. Clasping hands, they apologized for how they had hurt each other. They vowed not to hurt each other in the same ways again. They embraced and hugged for a long moment. Sharing how you don’t want to hurt your mate, how you want the best for your mate, can be a powerful, healing moment. Consider sharing your tears of regret with your mate and note the healing power of this moment. “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret.” (2 Corinthians 7:10-16)
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.