I'm a little appauld by your article. First, it's obvious that you are not married because BELIEVE me if you were, the content and the miscontrueness of your logic would not be represented so strongly in this article. I agree with Paul as he describe singleness as a gift. It really is. Marriage is not all about sex, this is part of the blessing from God (the sex part in a marriage). Marriage is suppose to represent Christ relationship to the church. It's not all about our individual needs our oneness of what we want. We get all of this if we follow God's word and what he says about marriage. He intructs Husbands to love their wives as Christ does the church, which means sacrifically. Meaning a husband should be willing to lay down his Life for her. Meaning shutting down some things on the inside of him for her. And wives are to respect there husbands out of showing reverance to the Lord. If you truly understood the sacrifices that goes into a godly, holy marriage as God wants us to hav

Your article is insightful...where does courting fit in here? And as a woman of God, I must say that ladies, we are not to go out looking for our mate. HE will send him.