9 Lies Women Tell Themselves About Men

As a Christian man, I can agree with much of what has been stated here given optimal circumstances. But even then, there's "reality" that comes along. We can all agree, striving for moral and ethical purity in a fallen world as the "nice guy" won't always garner points with those around you. If anything, the spotlight only intensifies. So, there's much to be said for the "nice guy", as I feel such a man is always left vulnerable for manipulation, especially from women. It just seems there's too many double standards, and pervasive levels of distrust, that you'd have to live in a bubble to find a mate anymore. So it's not surprising some Christians in their quiet lives of desperation compromise clear biblical values. Rather than pray, we panic as that biological clock ticks louder. So we usually wind up making mistakes. Churches represent family structure for many, which is why the divorced and singles rather than being alienated deserve special attention, and encouragement.

I'm sorry, but if your going to write an article with more cliches, well, please don't. Once again we have yet ANOTHER Christian article about how men are so sneaky and coniving and terrible. How these men should hold out and be thinking about the women more than themselves. Doesn't that go both ways? I'm sorry, but you're blaming men for your frien's choice. Men treat women poorly because women go for them. Its not complicated. I'm sorry to say it, but there are a ton of great guys out there who women are not interested in. Case in point that you brushed over in your article. Money. Well, now, how Consumerist Christian of her. He loves Jesus and he has a lot of money. Does that even remotely sound like the biblical Jesus? Good guys know this. A lot of my friends have given up on Christian women because they actually believed the stuff they heard in church. The women weren't paying attention, or didn't want to pay attention, and now they're the victim. Right. Cry me a river.

Excellent article. Thankfully, even though I've never put it into words, those are the principles I have upheld and it has worked out great. There's nobody better for a christian woman to share her life with, than a good christian man.