Not all men who are the 'Johnny Depp' type like the creep that was all into his world and not interested in others.
There is such a thing as a 'balanced guy' that has those attributes that she was so attracted to in the first place. Being the manly adventure taking type and still the God seeking man that will truly win a heart.
For me, the 'sensitive guy' can find another shoulder to cry on, that is not what I want my man to be.

Just the title roped me into this article.

And now I'm VERY glad that I read it.

I've always been attracted to the Johnny Depp type of guy, at least up until the last year or so. Then it's like something clicked and I realized that while macho is as macho does, it's the understanding and as you put it "balanced" man who lasts in a relationship. Mine hasn't come along just yet, but I know he's out there.

Brilliant writing and I think you touched on a topic that Christian women need to hear. And guys? Listen to what Julie's saying. Because she's right.