Mr.55,I can't really feel your pain.You've experienced more joy & suffering than I have.Being in my late thirties & looking 10yrs younger,I can relate.You two are trying to help but,seriously,you have no clue!Our focus should be Jesus always & forever.You aced that part!As for the practical advice, you failed miserably.As an "older" single woman:Mr.55,you are truly refreshing!You actually WANT an older woman? You're amazing!Most 35+ men drool over women in their twenties & it makes me ill.A man actually seeking his own level is like an oasis in a desert.You are fearlessly trying again? Terrific!Here would be my practical advice(from experience): 1)How are you younger acting? If you are upbeat & energetic,that's great!If you are being flirty,flighty,& immature,no woman over thirty will look at you.We want a grown up.2)Be honest & up front about your age. It eliminates future problems. 3)Pray your heart out,take chances,& always bounce back! Mr.55,I will be praying for you & your search!