Mrs. Sandberg's Advice
- Updated Dec 31, 2009
At long last we've made it to the end of 2009. Not triumphantly perhaps, but we've made it. So how did you do these last twelve months? What kind of year did you have?
Probably your year was a lot like mine. Some great victories, some surprising defeats, and a few "no decisions" along the way.
Maybe
you had one of those years we all hope and dream for. You finally got
your ideal job. At last you made it to the altar. You paid off the
mortgage. Your brother accepted Christ. You memorized Galatians. You
got pregnant. You read three new books. You bought a new car. You
survived surgery. You saved your marriage. You overcame a difficult
sin. You forgave your husband. You visited Yosemite. You passed
Algebra II.
Or maybe your year wasn't so good. "Momma said there
would be days like this. She just didn't say there would be 365 of them
in a row." You lost a dear friend. Your marriage broke up. You didn't
read the Bible very much. You wrecked your car. You harbored a grudge
far too long. You were passed over for the promotion. You broke your
collarbone. You got way over your head in debt. You moved to Boston and
for whatever reason, it hasn't worked out. You stopped smoking and then
started again. You got in a big fight with your boss. You flunked
Algebra II.
What should we do about it all at the end of the
year? How can you clean the slate and enter the new year fresh and
happy? During my college days I took a course called English Literature
from Mrs. Sandberg. At the beginning of the second semester she talked
to us about that very thing.
She said the way to handle the old year is to make a list of all the things that happened during the year— the good and the bad, the happy and the sad, the positive and the negative— in a box, tie a bright ribbon on it, label it with the year, and then give it all to the Lord. Let him handle it.
Just give it all to the Lord and he will take it. "You can throw the whole weight of your anxieties upon him, for you are his personal concern" (1 Peter 5:7 Phillips).
I tried it. It works. I recommend it to you.
You can reach the author at ray@keepbelieving.com.
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