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Truth to set your marriage free - Experiencing LIFE Today - October 9, 2018

  • 2018 Oct 09
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Marriage: A legal or religious ceremony by which two persons of the opposite sex solemnly agree to harass and spy on each other for ninety-nine years, or until death do them join. — Elbert Hubbard

Late one night, about twelve years ago, my wife and I found ourselves sitting in our kitchen. We started talking and it went something like this:

Libby: “Okay, we really need to talk.”
Me: “Okay, let’s talk.”
Libby: “I’m so angry at you I can barely stand it.”
Me: “Why?”
Libby: “I’m not even sure why. I’m just seething with anger.”
Me: “Well, you know what? I’m angry at you, too.”
Libby: “You know, I don’t even like you anymore.”
Me: “I don’t like you, either.”

We just stared at each other—silence for the longest time. It was a defining moment. We realized that the marriage we had constructed was a poor imitation of what God really had for us.

I’ve learned a lot since then, and I’ve become more and more convinced of a simple truth:

      Satan divides, and the Holy Spirit unites.

Satan is at work in our marriages, our families, and our friendships, and some of his favorite tools are his lies. If you believe those lies, your relationships can disintegrate before your eyes and you’ll wonder what happened—at least, that’s what happened to us. Paul laid out a counter attack:

Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible—and everything that is illuminated becomes a light. This is why it is said: “Wake up, sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” (Ephesians 5:11-14)

That night in the kitchen, we decided that we were going to put in the hard work, learn to be painfully honest, and ask Christ to give us the marriage that He longed for us to have. If you feel trapped like we did, the truth can set your marriage free.

Father, right here, right now, begin to expose the lies of darkness that I have accepted as true. Expose them with the light of Your Word. Wake me, elevate me, shine the light of Jesus on my home and my relationships. Amen.

Listen to Pete, Jill & Stuart Briscoe on the Telling the Truth broadcast at OnePlace.com

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