FRIDAY April 27, 2018
For man is not from woman, but woman from man. Nor was man created for the woman, but woman for the man. For this reason the woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels.
1 Corinthians 11:8-10
What was Paul speaking about in these verses? Once again Paul was speaking about God’s divine order. He was teaching God’s Word to the Christians in the culture of that time. He taught that man had to be the spiritual leader of his home, of his wife and children.
In this culture, if a woman was veiled she was considered to be married.
If she was not veiled, then she might be seen as a prostitute. So, if a man saw a veiled woman, he would show her respect––she was married. However, if she was unveiled she might be a prostitute, and then a man would approach her, talk to her and offer her something to be with her.
Think about our culture today, it has changed drastically. People live together and they do not want to get married. God gave the order for singleness and dating. There are instructions in 1 Corinthians 7, telling us exactly what to do. Many people divorce, it can be for any reason. Yet, God has given us the order for marriage and divorce (Matthew 19:1-8).
Paul spoke to Christians about not defrauding one another in marriage. If there are problems in your marriage, you can both agree to separate for awhile, but not to divorce. This is when you can both come to an agreement that you want your marriage to work, so you separate for a time of prayer and fasting (1 Corinthians 7:4-5).
However, when both marriage partners are denying themselves, and one of you begins to get tempted, then you should come back together. Otherwise there is the temptation to commit adultery. If you have come to that place in your marriage, you may want to talk with someone about it––before it is too late.
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times —
always with the same person.
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