We tend to judge ourselves easily, and others harshly. Sad but true. We notice the faults in others while overlooking our shortcomings. Scripture tells us that we will be forgiven by the same measure we forgive others. That is sobering news for me, and perhaps for you as well. Do you tend to notice and even talk about others in a negative light? Try seeing them as simply people trying to be human, flaws and all. They are generally doing the best they can.
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.