“Blessed are the poor in Spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 5:3). Not only will the poor in Spirit inherit the kingdom of heaven, but they realize their need for God and are teachable. As I work with couples intensively, I have often thought of creating a sign for above the door: “You are safe here. Doubt yourself.” In other words, be teachable. Don’t pretend to know it all, because you don’t. Have a humble, open spirit that is ready for the Spirit of Truth to envelop you.
Dr. David Hawkins, MBA, MSW, MA, PhD, is a Christian Clinical Psychologist and Director of the Marriage Recovery Center. He has helped bring healing to thousands of marriages and individuals and is passionate about working with couples in crisis. If you need help, please reach out to his Client Care Team at 206.219.0145 or through their website. Dr. Hawkins is also a speaker & trainer for the American Association of Christian Counselors and is a best-selling author of over thirty books including Never Fight Again, Gauranteed and When Loving Him is Hurting You. He has two grown sons, is happily married to Christie Hawkins, and lives on Bainbridge Island, outside Seattle, WA.