2. Teach Your Son How to Treat Women
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Little boys learn by example. They watch their father and the men in their lives. They learn when mature men teach them how to relate to women, how to respect all human beings, how to speak about women when they’re alone and in groups of other guys.
A man of godly character acts the same whether he’s drying off in the locker room or sitting in the church pew.
Mothers teach their sons by what they tolerate and how they speak up for themselves.
Recently, I sat in a hospital waiting room with other people who were waiting for their loved ones to finish surgery. Together, we watched the big screen and the latest reports of sexual assault.
One of the men across the room said, “That’s so silly. They’re going back years and years to find stuff on these men. The statute of limitations is over.”
I stood up and said, “The statute of limitations is never over for the women they assaulted.”
I could have listed lifetime side effects from harassment, assault and rape. I could have told him about my own experience and those of countless other women who sat in my office and wiped their tears, some of them just remembering what happened to them as children … all of them forever affected by what had been done to them.
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