by Dr. Charles Stanley
The Need for Emotional Provision
Material goods are only a small part of providing for one’s family. A man is also
responsible for giving his household emotional stability. A dad has the power to convey to his sons and daughters that they have tremendous significance.
• Fathers can offer a sense of belonging. All of us yearn to be part of a group. Parentsbuild strong family ties by listening to kids’opinions and respecting their feelings. Whenthat is the case, children know they have a safehaven from unpleasant circumstances — theyfeel security in a circle of people who love them unconditionally.
• Fathers can give their children a sense of worth. So many boys and girls are growingup thinking they have no value. These kids tryto compensate for their poor self-imagethrough sex or drug use, but they end up evenmore disappointed. What a child needs is adad who makes him or her feel special by hisinvolvement — attending events, making timeto talk, and joining in hobbies.
• Dads can provide a sense of confidence. A father who expresses his support instills good self-worth and assurance in his children. Saying to sons and daughters, “I believe in you no matter what the outcome” lets them know that they are unconditionally loved. Then, even if a child fails, his or her sense of confidence will not waver.
Think about how you talk to and support your kids. Whether they are toddlers, teens, or adults, your children need your emotional provision. How well are
Celebrate Fathers this month. Discover what our heavenly Father expects of dads and how He equips them to raise godly sons and daughters in Dr. Stanley’s series “How-To’s for Fathers.”
Breaking News: How to Handle Your Emotions is the latest elective now online at the Charles Stanley Institute of Christian Living! This expansive course focuses on Dr. Stanley's powerful 12-sermon series by the same name. In this course, students not only learn the basics of a healthy, biblical, and positive love for themselves, but they will also target some of the most potentially explosive emotions, including self-image, anxiety, loneliness, guilt, anger, depression, and rejection. Included in this for-pay elective course is a hand-signed copy of Dr. Stanley's book, Finding Peace, which brings further emphasis to the areas of regret, anxiety, and fear.