When You Win, You Lose
- 2013 29 Nov
You can win, defeating your mate as you would an enemy, but you will lose your relationship. Think about it. While winning seems pleasant for the moment, you separate yourself every time from the one you care about. Winning an argument means you will defeat your mate, putting down their point of view, causing them to feel devalued and worse, worthless. Is winning really worth that cost? Of course not.
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at [email protected]. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.