Result in marriage: This spouse is sensitive to her own failings, and therefore is understanding of and merciful toward her husband. She neither has a judgmental attitude nor holds grudges. She will find ways to solve problems in order to heal their marriage. She experiences the joy of reconciliation with God and her spouse, and works to maintain harmony. The spouse who mourns over sin will be driven to Christ, who in turn gives peace and comfort.

3. Meekness: “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.” (Matthew 5:5)

Characteristics: This person has a strong emphasis on humility and is concerned about other people. He places them above himself, allows others to receive glory, and serves rather than looks to be served. He allows others to honor him instead of doing it himself. This person can have strong character and exhibit authority, and yet be humble.

Result in marriage: This spouse esteems the other very highly. He is fair, does not retaliate, and is patient and longsuffering, especially when suffering unjustly. This person listens to and learns from his spouse. He gently initiates peace. He makes a great marriage partner because he does not struggle in applying faith in marriage.

4. Spiritually hungry: “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” (Matthew 5:6)

Characteristics: This person is overwhelmed by the fact that Christ’s righteousness has been imputed to her. Therefore, she is committed to being upright and moral in all that she does. To “hunger and thirst” means to long to be holy. She goes to God’s Word often and seeks to apply moral righteousness to her life. Justice, purity of heart, truthfulness, and holiness are very important to her. She correctly sees her own unrighteousness in light of Christ’s righteousness.

Results in marriage: She is a person whose word can be counted on. She is truthful and honest, and she confesses failure quickly. Instead of “covering over” her sin, she quickly asks for forgiveness from her spouse for wrong attitudes, actions, or words. She spends time receiving direction for life from the Word of God.