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HomeWord - Jan. 9, 2009

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Talk is Cheap
This devotional was written by Jim Liebelt

Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No’ be ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.”. — Matthew 5:37

Most of us have recent examples where we’ve observed the truth in the phrase “Talk is cheap.” For example, last year, my wife and I moved into a new home – and now looking back, it was a year filled with assurances from vendors and contractors who rarely followed through on their word without some kind of nagging or pressure from us.  It seems our society is filled with people who aren’t concerned about the integrity of keeping their word.

It would be nice if we could say that Christians are immune from the “talk is cheap” phenomenon, but we aren’t.  I see it happen within our ranks all of the time.  More indicting, the truth is that I’m just as guilty.  Perhaps I’ve snuggled up too close (once again!) to our culture and have been unintentionally influenced by it – but I find that I promise more often than I deliver.  While not intentionally lying, from “I’ll pray for you” to “I’ll help you with that project,” I’ve delivered verbal assurances where I haven’t thought seriously enough about the actual follow-through.  Looking back, I’m embarrassed by my behavior and I honestly want to do better.

Some may observe, “Everyone does it – we don’t mean to do it – it’s harmless.”  For the most part, that observation is likely accurate.  Most lapses in following through do not rise to the level of life or death issues; however, I believe that as Christ-followers, we are held to a higher standard. The Scriptures make it clear that integrity, honesty and following through on our promises are important to our own souls and to our relationships. While words are important, actions do speak louder. Our actions reveal more about our faith than all of the words we can muster.  As such, I’m not suggesting that we stop making promises to protect ourselves from lying.  I’m suggesting that we honor God by acting on what we promise.

While it’s likely that I won’t always be perfect in this area from here on out, my goal is to intentionally think more about following though – in the very moment I commit to something – and to remind myself that too often my own talk is cheap. Today, I encourage you to do the same.

GOING DEEPER:

  1. Think of a recent time when a person or company didn’t deliver on a promise to you. How did you react? What difference did it make in your perception of that person/company? 
  2. Evaluate whether or not you need to admit that too often your talk is cheap. Ask God to help you be a person of your word.

FURTHER READING:
Proverbs 10:9, 13:3, 14:23, 19:20; 2 Corinthians 9:2-5

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