6 Ways to be Generous When You Have Too Much Stuff
- Friday, April 25, 2014
This year has been one full of packing and unpacking. I’ve been travelling for work and I’ve been travelling for pleasure. Most of the time I’ve been living out a suitcase. Everything I need has been fitting in one bag that weighs 35 pounds or less.
I’ve noticed something curious about the things I have been carrying around with me. About 25% of my clothes never leave the bag. The other day I pulled these items out to take a good look at them and realized that they all fit under the “in case” category. You know, "in case we go to a fancy restaurant or "in case we have a hot/cold day.”
As I picked the “in case” items out my luggage and decided I won’t be packing them on the next trip, I looked at the items and wondered why I carried them with me around four countries? And I thought about how much stuff I own just “in case” I need it and how much simpler my life would be if I gave it all away instead of hoarding it.
When I got home, I began to look around for the items that made up the 25%. I found soccer pads and shoes “in case” my husband takes up indoor soccer after a five-year absence. There is my guitar collecting dust just “in case” I decide to callous my fingers again. Then there are numerous small shampoos and soaps from hotels “in case” I need them for a trip.
If I’m honest, all of these “in case” items are a symptom of a lifestyle filled with excess. I have more than I need, while others have less than they can survive on. I know there is no quick fix to the problems of poverty in the world but perhaps if I found ways to better use the 25% it would go some way towards helping those struggling to survive.
These are a few of the ways I’ve found to spread the excess that I own in different areas of my life:
I’m pretty good at donating clothes on a regular basis. Even so, when I look at my closet I see plenty of “in case” items that I haven’t worn in years. There are evening dresses I can’t even fit into any more that I have kept in case a chance comes to wear them again. This year I’ve decided to donate those dresses. Take a look at donatemydress.org for where to deliver your dresses in the U.S.
Business attire and suits can be donated to careergear.org who provide professional clothing, mentoring and life-skills to help men in poverty become stronger contributors to their families and communities.
Wondering what to do with worn out towels and blankets? Why not drop them off at your local animal shelter where they can be used as bedding for the dogs and cats.
Coming home from holiday I decided to take a look at the long-life food in my cupboards. I found a stash of canned food still well within the use-by date that has been sitting on my shelves for over 6 months. Many of these cans contain “in case” foods that I don’t actually like to eat, so I put those foods in a bag and dropped them off at a food bank where they can be distributed. I’ve also decided to no longer buy the “in case” foods that I don’t really prefer.
My bathroom cabinet is full of unused travel size shampoos, body washes and even those fold out toothbrushes airlines give on intercontinental trips. Since we have a friend who has made it is mission in life to befriend homeless people, I sent him a message and asked if he would thought his friends would like them. He sent back a resounding, “Yes." If you don’t know anyone who hangs out with homeless people, why not give a shelter or halfway house near you a call and find out if they could items like this for welcome packs.
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