5 Common Warning Signs You’re Living Beyond Your Means
- Friday, May 31, 2013
"A budget tells us what we can't afford, but it doesn't keep us from buying it." - William Feather
Have you ever been to a restaurant and while deciding on what you’ll eat, you take a look one table over and see someone devouring a scrumptious looking meal? You know that you should have something healthier, with fewer calories, and a slightly lower price tag, yet as soon as the waitress asks for your choice you hear yourself say: “I’ll have whatever he is having.”
Sadly, so many of us approach our financial decision making the same way, and before we realize it, we have dug ourselves into a deep financial hole wondering how we get here in the first place.
Living beyond our means has become the norm. Financing our lifestyles with easily available credit is almost expected, and anyone who is living on “cash only” basis is rare species about to go extinct. Social pressures to meet certain living standards are contributing greatly to the financial instability of our families.
If you suspect that you may be living beyond your means, here is a quick checklist of five common warning signs combined with practical tips on overcoming those challenges.
1. You are constantly discontent.
Do you find yourself constantly wishing for more? Is it hard for you to watch others upgrade to nicer cars, bigger homes, better furniture or even pricier, more prestigious private schools for children? If you’re quietly saying yes, then your discontentment may be driving you to impulse financial decision-making. Reflect on your spending habits and evaluate whether many of your purchases are done out of true need or out of a need to fill in an internal void or social pressures. Decide today that you will no longer live to impress others by spending money you don’t have on the things you don’t really need.
2. You can’t afford to lose your income, at least for a while.
If today you, or you and your spouse, lost your income, would you be able to survive for the next 6 months only on what you have set aside in your savings? If the answer is a definite NO, you may be overspending on today’s wants while sacrificing tomorrow’s needs. If that’s the case, take a hard look at your current spending. Do you have a spending plan or a budget? Make one. Are you fully aware of how every dollar you earn is spent? Get to the bottom of this and make sure that you assign every penny to a specific budget category. Track your spending for the next 30 days to reveal all potential “waste” areas.
Your goal should be to eventually have 6 months of your living expenses set aside and available in case you experience a complete income loss.
3. Credit is your best friend – or so you think.
Credit has become so accessible that any college student who does not have a steady income is bombarded with offers of easy money. Do you have a revolving balance on your credit cards? Are you using one credit card to pay off another one? Is your monthly credit card balance growing instead of declining? If the answer is yes, then you are most likely financing a “beyond your means” lifestyle.
Take the next few days, look over your credit card purchases and see exactly what you are buying. Is it expensive clothing? Maybe its time to move to a cheaper clothing line or to live out this famous great depression motto: Use it Up, Wear it Out, Make it Do, or Do Without. Have you fallen for the buy now and don’t make any payments until who knows when offers? Now that the payment time has come, are you struggling?
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