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I don’t really like to write. When I tell people that, they often express surprise, assuming that since I travel the country giving seminars on how to teach writing, I must somehow enjoy doing it. Fact is, I don’t. What I do like is having written something—being done with it and believing that someone else will gain from having read it. But the writing itself is hard work, and I don’t much enjoy it. German author Thomas Mann observed: “A writer is somebody for whom writing is more difficult than it is for other people.” Probably that’s true in any discipline—music, art, or dance—and perhaps I presume to identify myself as a writer simply to excuse the difficulty I have in doing it. Nevertheless, for me it’s work.

Students, though, are sometimes relieved to hear that I don’t actually like to write and that I don’t expect them to like it either. I tell them it’s not necessary to like writing. I also let them know they need to learn to do it decently well, because when they can, they will be better prepared to excel in whatever career they undertake, be it engineering, mothering, soldiering, or garbage collecting. In any field, those who are competent at what they do will usually be needed, but it is those who are good at the job and able to communicate the concepts involved in the work who will rise to positions of influence and leadership.

However, as parents and mentors our problem is a paradox: it’s hard for a student to get good at doing something he doesn’t like to do, because to get better, he has to do it, but he doesn’t want to, because he doesn’t enjoy it, so he’d rather not do it. How can we get past that?

First, we must understand the possible reasons why a student dislikes writing. One possible cause is neurology: a visual and/or auditory processing disorder that makes reading and/or writing difficult, or in some cases a manual/motor disability that exacerbates the challenge of eye-hand coordination. Another possible cause is a lack of appreciation for and enjoyment of language, usually the result of not having had enough good literature fed to the mind, either by ear or eye.

In my experience, however, the most common reason that students dislike writing is that they’ve had repeated experiences of frustration and failure and therefore believe that writing is something at which they cannot succeed. From whence do these frustrating past experiences come? I believe much of the frustration has to do with the way writing is taught and has been taught in this country for the past several decades. Ask any random person “What is the purpose of writing?” and he is likely to answer with some variation on this phrase: “To be able to express oneself.” 

In our culture, writing has become an endeavor that’s all about self-expression, emotional expression, creativity, and cathartic therapy. Unique is good. Analysis is good. Unique analysis is best. It’s all about saying something original in an original way; anything less than that isn’t real writing. And that’s a heavy burden to place upon a student—consciously or unconsciously. Even homeschool families have suffered because of this frustrating modernism that is now promoted in English curricula.

So one might logically ask: How was writing taught before this obsession with creativity and originality infected modern pedagogy? If we go a little ways back, we can see that in the earlier part of the 1900s, the skill of writing centered on the expression of ideas, not on self. Recently I came across a Washington Post blog article by two University of Southern California academics, William G. Tierney and Stefani R. Relles, in which they bemoan the sad state of student writing at the university level. They offer four excellent suggestions for improving student writing—surely echoes of the past: (1) Set specific and understandable goals. (2) Teach students how to revise. (3) Teach summarizing, not analyzing. (4) Require more and longer writing.