Pioneer Parenting: Building the Christian Home You Never Had
- Monday, February 20, 2006
My parenting skills increased when I found other pioneer parents who struggled just like me. When I’ve had a particularly difficult parenting day, I’ll call a fellow pioneer parent and vent. Paul says that we are to "bear one another’s burdens and thus fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:4 NAS). Finding like-minded pioneer parents who are willing to share struggles lightens burdens. As I shared my burdens, and listened to other Pioneer Parents share theirs, I realized I was a normal parent with typical struggles — with a big God who ultimately shouldered every burden. In the company of like-minded friends I’m able to laugh at my mistakes and continue down the pioneer parenting path.
Being a Pioneer Parent is no easy task, particularly when we’re plagued by worry that we’ll duplicate the homes we were raised in. In granting ourselves grace, seeking mentors, saying I’m sorry, seeking inside-out healing, forgiving our parents, eliminating comparison, and finding friends who bear our burdens, we will scale the difficult peak of parenting, by God’s grace.
Mary DeMuth is the author of Ordinary Mom, Extraordinary God, Building the Christian Family You Never Had, and Watching the Tree Limbs: A Novel. She loves to write and speak about the redemptive hand of God in impossible situations. She lives with her husband and three children in Southern France where they are planting a church. Check out her website at www.relevantprose.com or browse her blog at www.relevantblog.blogspot.com.
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