Have a 'Clean Slate' Marriage in '09
- Monday, January 05, 2009
4. Do you regularly forgive your spouse? Bitter water can spring up between you when harsh words are exchanged, when confidences are broken and offenses racked up. Forgiving and asking for forgiveness will clean away the junk that can pile up between you and your spouse (1 John 1:9).
5. Are the things you devote your time and attention to constructive to your marriage? My husband and I have to fight the “demands of the daily” to take our weekly date nights (which might consist of staying home and just enjoying each other’s company without interruption instead of an expensive night on the town). Things like TV, video games, the phone, internet, etc can steal away hours that could have been spent in something that would bear fruit. These things are not bad in and of themselves, but they can distract and eventually dry up that abundant stream that is supposed to flow through the heart of a marriage.
Having a clean slate in marriage isn’t about dates on a calendar. It is about the attitude we carry in our hearts toward one another and the things we allow to flow through the center of our relationship. It is about treasuring your relationship enough to devote the energy and purpose to guard the quality of your marriage. May rivers of abundant love, joy and peace flow through the heart of your marriage in 2009!
For a free list of 31 ways to cultivate a “clean slate marriage” contact us at info@InHisEyesMinistries.com.
April Motl and her husband, Eric, minister at their church in Southern California where he is a pastor on staff. April is the founder of In His Eyes Ministries; a teaching ministry devoted to helping women see their life from God’s perspective. For more information about the ministry visit www.InHisEyesMinistries.com.
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