Tears are the safety valve God has given the pressure cooker of our injured hearts and our shattered dreams. I tell my GriefShare folks they  must cry 5,395 times during this sorrowful journey, so they’d best get started. Scripture tells us God saves our tears in a bottle. (NASPsalms 56:8).

Strength and ability to endure great tragedy and loss comes from the power of God, through the Word of God, and the comfort of the Holy Spirit. There is no true healing from this traumatic life experience outside of the touch of the Lord, Jesus Christ. Oh, you can stuff your agony into the depths of your heart. But I promise you, if you bury grief alive, there will be a resurrection one day, and it won’t be pretty.

So let’s determine to walk together in this wretched journey for the next few weeks and I’ll introduce you to several prescriptions that will bring you safely to the other side of this horrendous event, if you’ll follow the Great Physician’s orders.

Prescription #1 - GriefShare is a Christ based support group that is a safe place to empty all the pain and anguish threatening to drown you. Go online to www.GriefShare.org and click Find A Group to locate a group near you.

Texas writer, DiAne Gates illustrates and writes for children, leads an adult and teen writing group for North Texas Christian Writers, and facilitates GriefShare. Her books include Arnold the Ant and Roped. She has a featured story, Alligator Alley Angels in Cecil Murphey’s and Twila Belk’s new release, Heavenly Company, Entertaining Angels Unaware. Her blog site is Moving the Ancient Boundaries.

Publication date: October 16, 2012