What to Consider Before Bringing an Older Child Home
- Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Don't be fearful of the older children. If you are being called to adoption, I invite you to prayerfully consider the older children. It is not right for everyone, just like adoption in general is not right for everyone. It is not something to be walked into lightly, as it changes everything. Each family has been uniquely gifted to work in God's kingdom. I simply invite you to explore whether or not your family has been equipped for an older child, and then I advise you to count the cost ahead of time, prepare, educate, and consider what it means for your family if you do say "yes." In everything we need to keep our perspective vertical and always go to our Source. God is the author of families. Let Him alone author yours. He will never lead you wrong.
When you say "yes" to an older child, you invite intensity into your home. There is no way around that. You invite the need for Jesus like you have never needed Him before. Jesus is the only Healer of hearts, and He must be present in our homes. Though His healing may take time, and though the process may be painful and hard, we do not believe that the struggle is the finish line. We believe that God promises the victory, but we believe that He uses the struggle along the way and that healing does indeed come in the morning. Praying to this end in our family and in yours. Because His grace really is enough, and He is good.
This article originally appeared on A Moment Cherished. Used with permission.
Tiffany Darling is her husband's Sweetheart, her children's Mommy, and most importantly a daughter of the King. She spends her days loving and teaching her children, cooking and baking, photographing, and some days even finger painting a masterpiece with her children. She blogs at A Moment Cherished.
Publication date: November 20, 2012
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