Regarding your situation, though, two months of dating is not a very long time for a couple to have gotten to know one another very well.  And if it has been more of a speed-dating type of situation, then why?  What's the rush?  Slow down, pray about the matter and see what happens.  This will tell you a lot about the man you are dating and perhaps why he apparently wants to take the express lane to marriage. 

And if you are uncomfortable sharing this level of personal information with him so soon, then wait until you are ready and feel a peace about doing so.  Either this is the right guy for you, and you just need some time to feel more comfortable with him and to establish trust, or you may have just seen a relationship warning sign that is prompting you to stop the proceedings altogether or to proceed with extreme caution.

HE is … Cliff Young, a contributing writer and a veteran single of many decades.  He has traveled the world in search of fresh experiences, serving opportunities, and the perfect woman (for him) and has found that his investments in God, career and youth ministry have paid off in priceless dividends.

SHE is …
Laura MacCorkle, Senior Editor at  She loves God, her family and her friends.  Singleness has taught her patience, deepened her walk with the Lord and afforded her countless (who's counting anyway?) opportunities to whip up an amazing three-course meal for one. 

DISCLAIMER:  We are not trained psychologists or licensed professionals.  We're just average folk who understand what it's like to live the solo life in the 21st century.  We believe that the Bible is our go-to guide for answers to all of life's questions, and it's where we'll go for guidance when responding to your questions.  Also, it's important to note that we write our answers separately (we think they sound eerily similar sometimes, too!). 

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**This column first published on August 26, 2010.