A reader says: "I am 28 years old and have never been asked out. I understand that the guy should do the pursuing, but what does it mean when no one is pursuing? I would just like to know what I'm doing wrong." See what "he" and "she" have to say in response.
One reader asks: "Is it wrong to pray specifically for those things we want in a spouse and for how we want a spouse to look?" What a great question! Find out how "He" and "She" have answered in response in this edition of "He Said-She Said."
We receive so many questions each month, that there just isn't space or time to answer them all. So we've decided to mix it up and are giving short answers to five questions in one column. Read on to see what "He" and "She" have said.
A male reader wants to be chivalrous but is told that his efforts to do so are not needed. Is this just old-fashioned thinking, should he stop doing these things and is chivalry really necessary? See what “He” and “She” have to say in response.
A reader thought she had a great first date with a man who then told her: "I'm not at a place right now emotionally where I can handle dating or having a serious relationship." What does this mean? See how "He" and "She" have tried to decode and figure it all out.
A reader asks: "Why does it seem most churches focus so much on married couples? And what can singles do to fit in better?" Find out how "he" and "she" have answered and what they have to say about a single’s role in the Church.
What's a 55-year-old man to do when he looks and acts younger than he is? Women his age think he's a lot younger. And when younger women find out how old he is, they don’t know what to do. See what "He" and "She" have to say about this predicament.
One readers says: "My boyfriend breaks my spirit, but yet I sometimes feel like I should still love him. I guess because I keep thinking love is patient. When is enough enough in a 'Christian relationship'?" Read what "he" and "she" have said in response.
"Is it okay for an unmarried man and woman to go on vacation together?" a reader asks. It's a question many singles find themselves asking during their seasons of singleness. Find out what “he” and “she” have said in response.
"A younger guy, who is chasing me, has an admirer who happens to be his friend and she often tries to hinder me from being too close with him. How should I face this kind of situation?" Read what "he" and "she" have to say in response.
A young seminary student wonders if he should marry his girlfriend now (“temptations are strong”) or wait until he’s finished (“I don’t want to ruin what God has for me here in seminary”). Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response.
"God has given us the desire to be sexual, and I believe being flirtatious is okay. How does a woman let a man know she is interested and not cause lust?" Find out what "He" and "She" have said in response.
“Here’s what I don't understand: Why do women today prefer the ‘bad boys’ they know will mistreat them over the "good men" they know will treat them right?” Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response.
One female reader asks: “How does a single let go of the parenting dream? Is it wrong to say I can be happy on my own without a child?” Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response.
“What are your thoughts on relationships with non-Christians, especially with the opposite sex? How good of friends should we become?” Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response.
When it comes to dating relationships, one reader asks: “Is there an acceptable age difference?” Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response to age gaps between a man and a woman.
“When a woman makes more money than a man, will it cause a problem?” One reader has asked this question which seems to be a predicament that some singles are facing these days. Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response.
After a failed attempt to date her best friend, a reader wonders if they can still be friends or if she should just walk away from the friendship. Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response.
Should you wait until you are married to buy a house or is it okay to buy a house as a single adult? Find out what “He” and “She” have said in response to a question that many of us are asking.