How to Transform Your Daily Commute into a Worshipful Experience
- Barb Peil Crosswalk.com Contributing Writer
- 2012 12 Dec
I wish I hated sin as much as I hate my morning commute.
That’s what I said six months ago. Last year, I took a new job that is ten miles farther from home. When factoring in all the changes, I didn’t think the extra miles would matter that much.
But everyone in the Dallas metroplex seems to be on the same mission as I was...and the same road. After a few months navigating that gridlock every morning, I was ready to drive off a cliff.
No matter the time, or the route, or the music or sermons I listened to—nothing calmed the frustration that built up in me every morning. And I don’t have to tell you that anxious and worn out is not a great way to arrive at a job already brimming with its own challenges.
What was the real problem? I felt like I was being robbed. Two extra hours of the day that should have been mine were being poured out on the road like a cup of old coffee.
Something had to change.
Our cars are like our bubble worlds. Most of us sit in our bubble alone—alone with our radios and stereos, with our thoughts and worries. As we creep along, our bubble thoughts are colored by the reflection of brake lights.
Sitting in my bubble one day, I had an odd thought. What if this “delay” was by design? What if God was asking for my focused attention right there? Let the traffic creep; let the time pass—maybe the delay was intentional.
Perhaps like you, my relationship with God is the most precious thing I have. What if I invited Him to ride along with me in gridlock? How would it ease my frustration? What would He say to me if I gave Him access to my heart and mind?
I decided to test it. For one month, I would intentionally invest my ‘bubble-time’ with the Lord.
What Did I Learn?
First I just started to talk Him. I told Him about my day ahead. The deadlines. The meetings. The situations I was concerned about, and the people I would work with.
I asked Him to go before me in a conversation I would have that day with a difficult client. ...Give me discernment, Lord.
On other days...Help me work through this strategy with my team.
...Show me how to be most productive. Focused. Kind. Smart.
And on the petition went.
When I ran out of things to say, I was tempted to turn on the radio. But no, for one month I was committed to doing this commute differently.
Then slowly a change happened. I started to pay attention. I rested my right hand on the seat next to me, aware that the Lord was with me. Some would call this, ‘practicing the presence of Jesus.’ To me it felt like I had a carpool companion.
When I made myself quiet (and kept my eyes on the road), familiar Scripture verses came alive:
“The Lord is with you.” (Next to you in this seat.)
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” (I will give you the right words for those conversations today. I will. Depend on me.)
“Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for Him.” (I designed this pause to prepare you for the day.)
“The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (I am protecting you against every threat. Go confidently.)
I never imagined that “be still and know that I am God” could happen sitting still in traffic—hedged in by SUVs, trucks, and gas fumes. I slowly began to see this gridlock as grace.
My Rules for the Road
If it is true that life is lived in the gaps, then a gridlock commute is not stolen time—it’s part of your daily story. More than just redeeming the time, this is an opportunity to develop your best relationship.
If you want to try your own 30-day experiment, here are my rules:
1. First, remove the distractions. I turn off the radio, CD/MP3s, and my phone. One of our enemy’s tactics is to distract us from hearing God’s voice. So intentionally, give yourself to God for this brief time. Ask, “what do you want to talk about, Lord?”
2. Next, “set your mind on things above,” as Colossians 3:2 tells us. Why? Because every battle is first fought in the mind. If you’ve ever disciplined yourself to diet, you know that once your mind is made up, you can do almost anything. The same follows for your relationship with God.
Here’s how you can fight the battle:
- Memorize well-chosen Scripture verses in your bubble.
- Intercede for the people you’ll work with that day.
- Establish a podcast schedule of your favorite preachers on interesting topics.
3. Lastly, fill your heart with worship. Now turn on your stereo.
- Create playlists of your favorite worship songs.
- Listen to a CD of the Psalms being read.
- Look for evidence of God’s love as you drive—and thank Him for it. See His hand in the sunrise and thank Him for His promised faithfulness, in the birds and thank Him for His promise to feed them (and you). Look at other drivers and thank Him that He knows their every name and every need.
Moses asked God, “let me know Your ways, that I may know You...” (Exodus 33:13). The phrase “Your ways” is the picture of a well-traveled passage through a field where someone walks back and forth every day. The passage eventually becomes a path, established by daily traffic. Traffic...hmmm.
In my 30-day experiment, my heart turned from “help me cope”—to “help me know You.” As Moses did, if we learn God’s ways (literally, “His paths”), we literally are showing up for relationship.
When I turn on the car’s ignition my daily prayer has become, “Make me to know Your ways, O LORD; teach me Your paths” (Psalms 25:4). And for the days I forget my goal, I have it written on a 3 x 5 card on the dashboard, right next to my GPS.
You’re probably not surprised that I’ve extended my one month experiment to a lifetime. My commute is no longer driving to my occupation. Knowing the Lord has become my occupation. He is the destination and the journey together. My commute, my job, my relationships, my challenges—these are all ways that I can give God access to my heart and respond to His invitation to relationship.
My story is no longer of road rage ready to happen, it is of someone whose time is not wasted—but in God’s hand. On one of my bubble playlists, Susan Ashton sings, “There’s just one thing I’ve got to do // as I search for what to pursue // as for me, I choose to be near to You.”
Barb Peil has realized recently how rich and fruitful it is to be a woman after God’s heart—single or married, young or mature, fulfilled or struggling in any other area of life—doesn’t matter. It all comes down to ‘my heart for God.’ You can read her blog at Letters2Myself.com—a website for all women to seek and share wisdom at every stage of life.
Publication date: December 11, 2012