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Why Christian Women Marry Muslim Men

Mark Earley

President, Prison Fellowship

It was while vacationing in Turkey that Miriam, a British subject, became fascinated with Islam. She was mesmerized by the beauty of the mosques and spellbound as she heard the daily calls to prayer. Miriam had been raised a Christian, but had turned against God when her mother died. The simplicity and security that Islam seemed to offer appealed to her: She decided to convert and married a Muslim man.

But within a few years, cracks began to form in her new faith. She felt that she could never be good enough to earn a place in Paradise, and that God did not love her. One day Miriam picked up her old Bible, and a few months later, re-embraced her commitment to Christ. But when Miriam told her husband what she had done, he promptly left her and their little girl. Islamic law required it: She was now an apostate.

Miriam tells her story in a new book by Rosemary Sookhdeo titled Why Christian Women Convert to Islam. What is shocking is how many of these women come from strong, evangelical backgrounds. Many converts, like Miriam, are brought up by Christian parents, accept Christ, and get involved in church activities. But as they grow older, their commitment fades, or they become disillusioned with Christianity. Islam, they think, may offer the answer.

Younger women often meet Muslims at college—men who convince them that there is really not much difference between Islam and Christianity. When their wives discover the truth that Christianity is not the same as Islam, it is often too late. Any children they have will be raised Muslim-and great pressure is put on wives to convert.

Some women marry with the best of intentions: Their husbands are recent Muslim converts to Christianity. The women learn later that they should have put off wedding plans in order to test the strength of this commitment, because all too often, these men convert back to Islam when their families pressure them.

The sobering truth is that the number of Christian converts to Islam is growing rapidly. Sookhdeo says that when her husband recently spoke at a major Christian conference, he asked the audience how many of them knew someone who had converted to Islam. Fifty percent of the audience raised a hand—astonishing!

Sookhdeo believes that some 30,000 Westerners have converted to Islam in the last decade—the majority of them women. Clearly, our churches need to do something about this. In Sunday school classes and youth groups, we need to teach our kids, especially our daughters, about the difference between Islam and Christianity. And we cannot forget the role that Christian education plays here. We must remind them of the Apostle Paul's admonition in Second Corinthians that we not be yoked with unbelievers.

As more and more Muslims immigrate to Western countries, Christians will likely find themselves mixing with them at work, in the college classroom, and in their neighborhoods. While we should welcome opportunities to develop friendships and share our life and faith, marriage is altogether different.

If you know young Christians tempted to marry outside the faith, talk to them. Pray for them. And ask your church family for support. We must do all we can to help our children remain faithful to the one true God and His only Son, who alone died for our sins: Jesus the Christ.

Copyright © 2007 Prison Fellowship

BreakPoint is a daily commentary on news and trends from a Christian perspective. Heard on more than 1000 radio outlets nationwide, BreakPoint transcripts are also available on the  Internet. BreakPoint is a production of The Wilberforce Forum, a division of Prison Fellowship: 1856 Old Reston Avenue, Reston, VA 20190.

 

Most Recent User Comments
pbaribeault
11/17/2007 12:55 AM
The trend is real and genuinely a problem, but we've seriously missed the point if we the 'something' our Churches need to do about this is using the time we have with our young people to (1) Teach the differences between Islam & Christianity (2) Remind them of the admonition that we not be yoked with unbelievers; and (3) Talk to them about their temptation.

I suspect that these activities (at least the first 2) are useless expressions of precisely why these young people find Islam more appealing than the Christianity that they have grown up with.

How about we figure out what is falsely-appealing about Islam, then we find out how those elements are even more real and desirable within the truth of the gospel and the Church, and actually begin to provide something that appeals to youth who are drawn to that sort of thing!

Let's quit with the textbook, admonition and personal lecture tactic for guiding teens away from what their spirits legitimately crave. We have what they need.
happyholly75
11/15/2007 12:09 AM
Wow! Finally someone speaks on this topic. I had a friend of many years who converted after confessing she's always felt drawn to it. When I attempt contact it seems (it could be paranoia but she isn't the type to be non-responsive) she isn't allowed to read my letters, reply, listen to my phone messages or call me!! When I do ask her if she got my message she makes excuses for her husband. I love her very much as a sister as we've known each other for twenty-one years. I will also say that she claims that Christianity is very similar to Muslim..yet, I know they are vastly different.

Thank you for this article.

P50116
11/14/2007 4:54 PM
I think a major portion of this trend is that people stop at the point of seeing that two religions are monotheistic.

The fact that the single Deity of each is not the same eludes them. Christians have a triune God: Father, Son, Holy Spirit.

Allah is not this God.

I've also had Jewish friends say that "We have the same God, except for two-thirds of the Trinity." Hello? "Same except" is not "same."

There's a simple test to apply here: if you're thinking about converting, is Jesus there where you're heading? If not, you're making a mistake.
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