God can honor your losses and even restore and heal you. God wants to bless you and uses all of our losses and hurts to bring you closer to Him. (Jeremiah 29:11) As you accept yourself, you can talk about your losses. You need not keep any aspect of your past or present a secret. As you feel your pain, God can heal your pain.


Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and Saying It So He'll Listen. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities.