Zach and Betsy were in the process of making a decision. How would they finance a remodel to their kitchen.  The work was necessary and they wanted to make a wise decision.  They agreed to talk with a financial institution.

Before their appointment with the bank, Zach discussed the issue with the guys at work and a few friends.  Betsy did the same.  They consulted with everybody they knew.  They spent several weeks in utter confusion and their heads were filled with voices of inconsistency.  

While it is wise to get good counsel, it is not wise to get everyone’s opinion.

(1 Corinthians 14:33) For God is not a God of confusion but of peace. As in all the churches of the saints...

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and TwitterDr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed!