People who give off a red light tend to steer clear of danger. They are friendly, but stop there and make it clear to others that they are closed for any other business. They may be perceived as a bit stuffy, but really they are simply protecting their heart, their emotions and their marriage. They don’t end up in a dangerous predicament. Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. Proverbs 4:23

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the marriage recover center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including dealing with the crazymakers in your life90 days to a fantastic marriage, and when pleasing others is hurting you. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on facebook and twitter