What if you listened to every complaint from your mate, friend or neighbor, as an opportunity for growth and change? What if you looked beyond your ruffled feelings to the need being expressed by the person complaining? You have an incredible opportunity to minister to them, to meet their need, to show them compassion and caring. The next time you face a complaint, listen with new ears for the need being expressed and be a hero. Meet the need! 

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and TwitterDr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed!