Jill and Bill live in Chicago.  Jill works at a large company as Human Resource Director.  Bill has a law practice.  Jill has been offered an advancement opportunity with a substantial raise in pay. The job is in the New York office.

Both are excited about the opportunity; however, it has taken Bill a number of years to build his practice and two of their four children live in Chicago.  This is a change that could require them to move, or possibly live apart during the week.

In order for them to make a decision it is necessary they both share their feelings and do some negotiating.  Together, they can come to a decision that suits both of them.  They might consider some help in coming to an understanding. 

(Proverbs 15:22) 
Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and TwitterDr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at TheRelationshipDoctor@gmail.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed!